In your account
The manager, its data and the routers run in your AWS accounts. Nothing is sent to Dormeto: no telemetry, no call home. The release is downloaded once, at terraform init, from releases.dormeto.com, with the SHA-256 checksum of every file.
Out of the request path
Awake, your load balancer forwards every request to your application and the waker is not invoked. Waking never depends on the manager: a router wakes its workloads even if the manager is down.
Never CloudFormation
Dormeto creates no stack and no StackSet, and has no quick-create link. You install the manager with Terraform. You create the roles in your accounts with a Terraform module or an AWS CLI script. A StackSet of yours also works, if that is how your organization deploys roles. The manager installs its routers by API calls you can audit in CloudTrail.
Health alerts
Every 5 minutes the manager checks what each router reports. A router that stops reporting, or reports a problem, is an alert to your email or any channel of its SNS topic. CloudWatch watches the watchdog itself.